Two Pitchers We are always pouring into others. Imagine that you have a pitcher in each hand. One is filled with pure delicious cold clear refreshing water. The other is filled with warm cloudy polluted water. Which pitcher are you pouring into the people you interact with? Which pitcher are you pouring into yourself? Much […]
Confidence
Confidence People often suffer from a lack of confidence and want to become more confident. The “how to” for that is pretty straight forward. 1. Quit destroying your confidence with negative self-talk. You cannot call yourself a loser idiot and then feel more confident. Instead, replace that negative self-talk with positive self-talk. “I’m a talented […]
Calling Out the Liar
Calling Out the Liar Say out loud, “I am enough.” Then notice if there’s a part of you that doesn’t believe this. That part of you is a liar because you are enough! You were enough yesterday. You are enough today. And, you will be enough tomorrow. Try this out and see what you notice: […]
Working the drive through window
Working the drive through window Imagine that you are working the drive through window. As the car is about to leave, you reach out through the window and grab on to the car. How’s this going to turn out for you? You’ll probably break a few ribs as you are pulled through the window and […]
Needs More Salt
Needs More Salt A couple of weeks ago I made a pot chicken soup. During the cooking process, I tasted the soup several times. The tastings told me that I needed to add more salt and more seasoning. I ended up doing this several times. The tastings served as feedback that something needed to be […]
Dust Devils
The End of Suffering
The End of Suffering Imagine if our bodies were as sensitive as our psyches – someone lightly touches us and we experience debilitating pain that lasts for days. That would be horrible. Unfortunately, our psyches are that way. Somebody slights us and we hurt for hours or even days or even years. Somebody looks at […]