What Does Success Look Like? Deep down, most people think that they are not a success. But if we ask them what success looks like, they don’t know. They just know that they don’t have it right now, that where they are right now is not enough to be success. Obviously, more is needed. Since […]
The Happiness Advantage Meets The Law of Attraction
Have you seen Shawn Achor’s TED talk? If not, please watch. He is so good! http://www.ted.com/talks/shawn_achor_the_happy_secret_to_better_work Shawn gives us the data about how our brains at positive perform significantly better than they do at negative or neutral. Then there’s the whole law of attraction side of things. When we are at negative or even neutral, we […]
3 green lights needed
Minimum Daily Requirement
What would happen if you set a few small minimum daily requirements that you did no matter what? Things like: 1 ask for your business 10 minutes of reading Check in for resistance and do 5 minutes of letting go work Check in with an existing client or customer just to say “hi” 5 minutes […]
GIVE
John F. Kennedy famously said, “My fellow Americans, ask not what your country can do for you, ask what you can do for your country.” So often people fall into the trap of thinking that someone owes them something – gratitude, respect, appreciation, support, recognition, opportunity – or maybe that life or God owes them […]
Emotional Inventory
Blind Spots
Mock Comfort vs Real Comfort
When we retreat from things that make us uncomfortable and take the easy path or let ourselves off the hook, we experience mock comfort. Sure we don’t have to deal with whatever that thing is which creates temporary short term relief. But, we have to deal with something else instead, something that is quite a bit […]