What are we setting out to find? We find what we look for. If I’m looking for a reason to be happy, I will find one. If I’m looking for a reason to be upset, I will find one. If I want to validate my story that I’m not supported, or I cannot catch a […]
Meaning vs Victim
November 21, 2017 by Leave a Comment
Meaning vs Victim In his famous book, Man’s Search For Meaning, Viktor Frankl talks about how vital it is for our lives to have meaning. Without meaning or purpose we don’t have anything to life for. My mom is skinny, walks every day, and eats healthy – and, she had a stroke last week. Now […]
Outcomes we’ve never even considered
November 15, 2017 by Leave a Comment
Outcomes we’ve never even considered Probably everyone has an area(s) in their lives where there are possibilities they’ve never even considered. Here’s an easy example of this: Many small business owners don’t think about profits, they simply think about having enough to pay the bills and then pay themselves enough to pay the other bills, […]
What are we relying on?
October 31, 2017 by Leave a Comment
What are we relying on? When we are relying on ourselves and our limitations, it is scary to get out of our comfort zone. We don’t know what will happen. The outcome is uncertain, unpredictable, and unfamiliar. The situation can be bigger than we think we are. However, it does not have to be this […]
Our starting point determines our outcome
October 25, 2017 by Leave a Comment
Our starting point determines our outcome If our starting point is something lousy like: I cannot do this. I’m not worthy. This is too hard. I’m destined to be mediocre. Good things don’t happen to me. Etc. Than an undesirable outcome is all but guaranteed. Oftentimes the first step to success is in upgrading our […]
Baby great white shark
September 28, 2017 by Leave a Comment
Restorative and Expansive
February 7, 2017 by Leave a Comment
Restorative and Expansive Whether we call it personal growth work, law of attraction work, or renewing our minds – there are two types of work, restorative and expansive. An effective program includes both. Restorative work is about uncovering the lies, upgrading the limiting beliefs, and breaking free from our “less than” identity. We are working […]
A better way to view fear
January 11, 2017 by Leave a Comment
A better way to view fear Fear usually means that we are trying to do something that is outside of our self-image, outside of our comfort zone, outside of who we know ourselves to be. So, that fear is showing us our self-imposed limits. It simply means that a lousy story or a disempowering belief […]
Sad Sack
January 9, 2017 by Leave a Comment
Let’s believe in Santa again
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