I am Ready When the waitress asks you if you are ready and you reply, “Not yet,” what happens? Nothing. She waits until you are ready. Once you order, then she can get into action on your behalf. What do you think happens when we tell God and the Universe that we are not ready […]
Fear
Fear When we experience fear, we can respond in one of two ways. We can let go (the useful choice). Or, we can twist and contort, doing everything we can to avoid feeling that fear (unsuccessfully I might add). Crazily enough, we’ve decided that avoiding and ignoring the fear is the way to go, the […]
Badge of Honor?
How To Do A Better Job
How to do a better job Do any of the following sound like strategies you would employ if you wanted to do a better job and improve performance, productivity, and efficiency? Decrease creativity Lower resiliency Decrease confidence Decrease optimism Decrease the speed at which you process information Decrease the amount of information you can process […]
Nothing To Prove
Addicted to Why
Words of Mass Destruction
Words of Mass Destruction There are a handful of words that we use on a regular basis that are very destructive. What if we never use these words again? Should ~ This word immediately takes us out of the present and of dealing with what actually is. It has us argue with reality and we […]
Let the tailgater pass
Let the tailgater pass Imagine that you are driving on a winding two-lane road through the mountains. You are in no hurry to get anywhere and are just enjoying the drive and the beautiful scenery. Then, a car catches up to you and starts tailgating you. You now have 4 options: 1) Stay in front – […]
What am I holding on to?
What am I holding on to? I’ve been asking myself that question several times a day lately. Almost immediately there is an answer ~ a limiting thought, a negative emotion, a grudge, an expectation, a limiting perspective etc . . . something that is well worth my time and effort to let go of. Once […]