Solution mode Have you noticed that so often people want to keep on rehashing the problem, and elaborating, and reviewing, and remembering similar offenses and . . . There is zero benefit when we do that. Zero! The problem can be covered in a minute or two. Then it is time to turn our attention […]
Curiosity and fear
Curiosity and fear Curiosity can be a great antidote for fear. Next time you are experiencing fear, start getting curious instead: What if it can be different? I wonder who my new client will be? I wonder how this is going to all work out? Etc. Fear is a very low state of consciousness. […]
Deathbed Conversations That Will Never Happen
Outwitting Our Thinking
Outwitting Our Thinking Sabine was sitting next to me on the roller coaster. She was about to ride for the first time. I could see, feel, and hear her starting to get anxious. I figured that this would most likely turn out to be a scary experience for her rather than an exciting experience if […]
1001 Daily Doses
Receiving
Receiving Q: Where does good come from? A: Other people! Q: Where does kindness, contribution, and support come from? A: Other people! Q: Where does money come from? A: Other people! So, if we have any head trash about receiving (most people do), then we are going to have some problems, deficiencies, and many opportunities […]
Get over yourself
Get over yourself Have you ever been in a situation where you could really help someone but they have some head trash about receiving assistance? ~ not very enjoyable. Have you ever been that person? It is okay to receive assistance! In fact, it is a very smart thing to do. Let’s create a culture […]
Simple math for personal growth
Simple math for personal growth A (action) + Me = R (results) Most people’s “me” is filled with negative thoughts and other limitations which makes the results they want to achieve impossible to achieve. We simply must do the personal growth work necessary to let go of limitations and expand possibility if we want to […]
The other ADD ~ Action Deficit Disorder
The other ADD ~ Action Deficit Disorder Many people suffer from the other ADD. They are not in enough action to create the results and outcomes that they want. Action Deficit Disorder ~ When there is an opportunity to do something that could change us for the better we end up procrastinating, hesitating, or avoiding. […]