We often have some head trash that goes something like ~ People like me don’t get rich. People like me don’t drive luxury automobiles. People like me don’t sell. People like me don’t get ahead. People like me don’t succeed in this business. Etc etc etc . . . We use this “people like me” […]
Warped Luxury of Negative Self Talk
May 7, 2015 by Leave a Comment
If you want to believe in yourself and be more confident, you cannot afford the warped luxury of negative self talk. It is impossible to believe in yourself when you are calling yourself a “loser” (and worse). Negative self talk is just a habit. Habits can be changed! Much Love, Jonathan I write these Daily […]
It is okay for me to get rich while doing good???
April 30, 2015 by Leave a Comment
It is okay for me to get rich while doing good. What happened when you read that sentence? For a lot of people, that sentence pressed some buttons – total head trash buttons. Which means that things are totally backwards. That is the way we should become rich – by doing good, contributing to others, […]
Using Emotions To Grow Yourself
April 24, 2015 by Leave a Comment
Emotions mean that something is important to us. By simply getting curious about “what here is important to me” when we are experiencing a negative emotion, we can already begin to diffuse a negative emotion. We move out of reactive consciousness and into witness or observer consciousness. We can then also learn about ourselves and […]
If You Are There, You Have Value To Offer
April 21, 2015 by Leave a Comment
You Can Lead A Horse To Water . . .
April 20, 2015 by Leave a Comment
I end up talking to clients about this all the time ~ it is impossible to be responsible for another person’s happiness, success, feelings, etc. These are things that we cannot possibly control. Any and every time that we try to be responsible for another person will inevitably end up in suffering. However, there are […]
Out of Control Optimism
April 18, 2015 by Leave a Comment
Optimism is a good thing. But when optimism becomes mandatory, when people have it that there is no other option but to be optimistic, optimism can cause real problems. There is a fine line between optimism and delusion. When we have to be optimistic, we cannot see what we need to see. We cannot see […]
Loved and Lovable
April 8, 2015 by Leave a Comment
The Currency of Attention
March 24, 2015 by Leave a Comment
