You don’t know who you are Most people do not know who they are. When we know (not conceptually or intellectually but whole heartedly) who we are we have peace, trust, joy, worthiness, belonging, love in our hearts . . . Instead, people have believed lies about who they are – lies of insufficiency, unworthiness, […]
Incongruent
Incongruent A friend of mine was recently betrayed. Consequently, he’s experiencing a lot of angry thoughts and revenge oriented thoughts. In talking with him today, he wanted to know how to get past those thoughts. One of the ideas I mentioned is that thinking and feeling that way is completely incongruent with who he wants […]
Rise up or give up (part 2 of bungee cords and ladders)
Rise up or give up (part 2 of bungee cords and ladders) Yesterday’s Dose talked about how limiting beliefs, poor self-image, and other head trash act like bungee cords attached to our waist as we try and climb the ladder of success. As we try and climb, we keep getting pulled back down off the […]
Bungee cords and ladders
Bungee cords and ladders Imagine having a bunch of bungee cords with one end attached to your waist and the other attached to the ground. Then imagine trying to climb a ladder. With each step up, the tension increases until “wham” you find yourself flat on your back on the ground. After a bit, you […]