Really it is okay to ask for help The ultimate piece of head trash is “I’m not enough”. And so often this prevents people from asking for assistance. I plays out like this: I should be able to do this on my own. If I was enough I surely would be able to. So if […]
What would I do if I didn’t drink?
October 19, 2016 by Leave a Comment
What would I do if I didn’t drink? So often in our thinking we are pushing against what we do not want rather than moving towards what we do want. And this strategy simply does not work. There’s a famous NLP (neuro linguistic programming) story about an alcoholic who kept wondering why she drank. She […]
Never present always guilty
October 18, 2016 by Leave a Comment
Never present always guilty Does this sound familiar ~ doing one thing but feeling guilty that you should be doing something else? For instance, you might be spending time with the family but feel guilty that you are not working. Then you start working and feel guilty that you aren’t spending time with the family. […]
Feeding the wrong wolf
October 17, 2016 by Leave a Comment
Feeding the wrong wolf I talked to several people today who were feeding the wrong wolf. They were busily and repeatedly reinforcing stories of frustration, unworthiness, tiredness, and limitation. This can never ever create a better life and destroys happiness. What wolf? The wolf of Cherokee legend. An old Cherokee is teaching his grandson about […]
If it isn’t broke, don’t fix it
October 16, 2016 by Leave a Comment
October 14, 2016 by Leave a Comment
Little fish in a big ocean grows up Because of head trash (like not worthy, not ready, success stuff, money stuff and other junk) people often think of themselves as a small fish in a big ocean. “Who am I to be successful? Who am I to be a rock star in my industry? Etc.” […]
Can and will
October 13, 2016 by Leave a Comment
Self-taught by an idiot
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Professional Over-Accommodating
October 11, 2016 by Leave a Comment
Professional Over-Accommodating When people don’t own their value, they tend to over accommodate. Imagine calling your doctor for an appointment and then the doc saying something like – you are on the north side of town right so there’s a coffee shop that is about half way between us. Why don’t we meet there? That’s […]
3 days of rain
October 10, 2016 by Leave a Comment
