Fast cars and slow drivers Imagine that Bob decides to get into car racing. He keeps losing. And after every loss, Bob buys some part that will make his car go faster. But, he continues to lose and by now he has spent a lot of money on his car (far too much according to […]
Words and focus
February 28, 2017 by Leave a Comment
The pursuit of fun
February 27, 2017 by Leave a Comment
Peace Love and Understanding
February 26, 2017 by Leave a Comment
Peace Love and Understanding Elvis Costello (the musician) asks, “What’s so funny about peace, love, and understanding? The funny thing (as in bizarre) is how often we choose not to experience peace, love, and understanding. Rather than peace, we frequently choose upset and hanging on to hurt. Rather than love, we frequently choose judgment and […]
Here’s Why . . .
February 25, 2017 by Leave a Comment
Erratic Thinking
February 22, 2017 by Leave a Comment
Erratic Thinking Most people suffer from erratic thinking in some areas of their lives. Erratic thinking leads to erratic results, erratic effort, and erratic performance. If we do not change our thinking, then how can we possibly do better? The question then becomes ~ are we willing to put in the effort and the work […]
Win or be the star
February 21, 2017 by Leave a Comment
Win or be the star Would you rather win or be the star? Do you prefer the credit or the desired outcome? Ego, which is driven by our insecurities, is desperate for credit, recognition, and the spot light. This can often get in the way of the desired outcome. I’ve seen this many times on […]
Roses and Volleyballs
February 20, 2017 by Leave a Comment
Roses and Volleyballs It has been unseasonably warm here this February. My volleyball friends and I have taken advantage of this and have played quite a bit of sand doubles. Although we all enjoy getting out there and playing, BK seems to appreciate it more. Every time when we are packing up to go home, […]
What would it take?
February 19, 2017 by Leave a Comment
Self-worth calculation
February 17, 2017 by Leave a Comment
Self-worth calculation What is it that you have allowed to define your worth as a human being? The size of your bank account What the bathroom scale says Number of friends The car you drive Ability to do something Some detail of your physical appearance Relationship status Etc. We are so very much more than […]
