“er” makes all the difference in the world If I say that I want to be happy, it logically means that I am not happy now. If I say that I want to be wealthy or healthy, it logically means that I am not wealthy or healthy now. You don’t say you want something that […]
Hearts Don’t Judge
Dominated By Time
Dominated By Time Any time that we are not experiencing lightness, ease, and joy in whatever we are doing, we are being dominated by time. And when we are being dominated by time, we naturally feel stress, pressure, and anxiety (usually because we think there’s not enough time) which makes us far less magnetic to […]
Definite consequences to feeling stressed and rushed
Definite consequences to feeling stressed and rushed A big trap people fall into is the story that we don’t have enough time. This automatically puts us into scarcity consciousness. We will then naturally feel stressed, pressured, and rushed. And there are serious negative consequences to feeling this way. When we are feeling this way, our […]
Cost or Benefit?
Cost or Benefit Our course of action is often determined by whether we are focusing on the cost or on the benefit. Over the years, I’ve encountered many people who are stuck and frustrated and desperately want different results. However, they talk themselves out of doing anything about it because they focus on the costs […]
Secret Sauce Recipe
Secret Sauce Recipe If we don’t document what we put in our delicious secret sauce, then we cannot make it again. If we do document it, then re-creation is easy. When we are in the groove, in the zone, creating unprecedented results ~ if we don’t document what we did to get ourselves there, how […]
Whose job is it to judge?
Whose job is it to judge? Does judging others give you peace of mind? Does it create happiness? It certainly does not for me. I don’t think anyone has ever judged their way to happiness. Who am I to judge? I am certainly not perfect. How another person lives his or her life is between […]