Scariest haunted house ever The scariest haunted house ever would just be a bunch of mirrors that would reflect our need for approval in all the different areas in our lives. Then it would show us just how much this is costing us – whether that be in dollars, peace of mind, momentum, quality of […]
Self-Imposed Identity Theft
Self-Imposed Identity Theft My friend, Dr James Jackson – founder of Project CURE, learned from his father that he could take what he had and turn it into what he wanted. This bit of wisdom has served him amazingly well. Unfortunately, “take what you have and turn it into what you want” was not the […]
If Only
But others will feel bad
But others will feel bad “It is not okay for me to do well, get what I want, be happy, have a great relationship, have a thriving business, get skinny, etc. because then someone else (or someone in specific) will feel bad by comparison.” This little piece of head trash is very common and very […]
Unfortunately Amazing
Unfortunately Amazing It is amazing how quick we are to get down on ourselves. What a ridiculous habit we have learned! We are human – we will make mistakes, not notice things, and drop the ball. But none of those things should diminish our self-worth as a human being. What if we learned instead to […]
I approve of me
Forgiving Ourselves
Forgiving Ourselves Nobody wakes up in the morning and sets out to sabotage themselves, make mistakes, or make poor decisions. But all those things are part of being human. They happen whether we like it or not. So making peace with this is very important. Even more important is having the grace to forgive ourselves. […]
Slave Mentality
Slave Mentality The other day a client referred to the Bible story of the Israelites wandering in the wilderness for 40 years before being able to enter the promised land. They were not allowed to enter the promised land until all those who lacked belief in God’s word and promises had died off. These people […]
Owning our value and expertise
Owning our value and expertise I got a call today from a past client. She was very excited because she had collected two nice checks in the last week for something that she used to do for free. She had learned to appropriately value her own expertise and experience. She had learned that she is […]