We are the sum total of all our vibrations ~ positive and negative. And, chances are very good that you are holding on to some hurt from past broken promises that brings your overall vibration down and consequently degrades your field of attraction. We always have the choice to let go. Over the past few […]
A Few Thoughts on Goals
December 16, 2014 by Leave a Comment
We are getting to that time of year when people start to create their 2015 goals. Here are a few useful thoughts to keep in mind when setting your goals: If your goals are not attached to compelling emotional reasons why they are important, they just become items on your to-do-list. If your goals are […]
I Quit
December 14, 2014 by Leave a Comment
Pre-Flight Checklist
December 13, 2014 by Leave a Comment
It doesn’t matter whether pilots are brand new or on their 5000th flight – they still go through their pre-flight checklist every time they fly. We can borrow this strategy. A lot of people have some fear about making phone calls. Here’s something you can do about that. What if you create a pre-call checklist […]
Sooner Or Later, You Have To Climb That Cliff
November 14, 2014 by Leave a Comment
We Can Do Better Than That
November 11, 2014 by Leave a Comment
There’s a group of people that I play doubles volleyball with. Partners are determined by the order in which people show up. So, we end up playing with different people all the time. Vlad and I have a history of playing really poorly together. We have been on the wrong end of quite a few […]
Better When Better Now
November 3, 2014 by Leave a Comment
People often fall into the illusion trap of “I’ll be happy when ___________” ~ when something is different. But they won’t because happiness is not a circumstance. Happiness is a choice. People often do the same thing with taking the steps to produce better results in their life. “I’ll do better when ________ is different.” […]
Friendly Universe
November 2, 2014 by Leave a Comment
One of my most quoted quotes comes from Albert Einstein. He said, “The most important decision we make is whether we believe we live in a friendly or hostile universe.” This choice sets our lives onto two very different trajectories. Now just because you believe you live in a friendly universe, this does not mean […]
A Change Of Opinion
October 28, 2014 by Leave a Comment
A year ago, the boy we carpool to school with told my daughter that he did not like our Halloween decorations. Sabine was devastated. She loves our decorations. This was a chance to talk with her about not taking things personally. That this was just his opinion. It wasn’t right or wrong, it was just […]
