Compensation and Value We are compensated to the extent that we own our value. And, most people have some work to do on owning their value and seeing what value they bring to the world. Also, sometimes we don’t recognize the true value of our gifts and talents. They are invisible to us like water […]
What Does Success Look Like?
What Does Success Look Like? Deep down, most people think that they are not a success. But if we ask them what success looks like, they don’t know. They just know that they don’t have it right now, that where they are right now is not enough to be success. Obviously, more is needed. Since […]
Past Present Future
Past Present Future A reader request: Would you please talk about being/living in the moment, for this day and not ruminating about the past. I would like to hear your thoughts about mistakes or difficult things that have happened in the past and the ineffectiveness of dwelling on them. ~ Here you go Debby: Throughout the […]
What if there is enough time!
What if there is enough time! People often have head trash that there is not enough time. As soon as you buy into “there’s not enough time”, you enter into scarcity consciousness. As soon as you buy into “there’s not enough time”, you experience stress and anxiety which has your brain work less effectively which […]
Hope and the Way
In many ways, I see the work that I do as restoring hope to people that things can indeed be different and then showing them the path to create this. Hope: Yes, things can be different – radically different. When we change our beliefs, expectations, and mindset then what is possible for us changes too. […]
3 Types of Self-Talk
Negative self-talk – damaging – I cannot do this! Positive self-talk – useful – I can do this! Possibility self-talk – even more useful – What if I can do this! We know that negative self-talk makes us physically weaker, less creative, less resilient, less magnetic to our good, less likely to be in action, […]
People Like Me
We often have some head trash that goes something like ~ People like me don’t get rich. People like me don’t drive luxury automobiles. People like me don’t sell. People like me don’t get ahead. People like me don’t succeed in this business. Etc etc etc . . . We use this “people like me” […]