We’ve All Got Our Stories I’ve got a friend who is talented, kind, successful, loved, respected, appreciated, and blessed. And this friend also has a personality quirk that does not at all fit with the things mentioned in the previous sentence. I had wondered about this incongruity and then I learned his back story. Instantly, […]
Force fields are way better than armor
June 14, 2018 by Leave a Comment
Force fields are way better than armor We were born loved and loving. Then we had some experiences, were judged, experienced disapproval etc and we started to forget the truth about us. Because these things hurt, we started putting on armor. However, the armor doesn’t really work. We keep getting hurt. We need […]
Proactive self defense
April 10, 2018 by Leave a Comment
Proactive self defense If we know we are going to be in an environment or situation that has a high likelihood of being unpleasant or even hostile, then proactive self defense is a wise move. In the days before hand: Send love repeatedly to all the parties involved. Pray for them. Set […]
The safety of playing small
November 10, 2016 by Leave a Comment
Head Trash and Referrals
November 6, 2015 by Leave a Comment
Head Trash and Referrals Referrals are the easiest (by far) way to get new business. However, many people struggle with asking for them. Why? Here are a few major head trash reasons why: Asking for help is not okay because I should be able to do it by myself. So asking for help proves that […]
Is Your Future Safe?
June 12, 2015 by Leave a Comment
Redefining Risky Business and the Safer Path
April 13, 2015 by Leave a Comment
It is almost impossible to escape the gravitational pull of our comfort zones when we are operating under the story that comfort equals safety. The number one human need is safety and survival – so if we have it wired that getting out of our comfort zone is not safe – it will be impossible […]
