There’s been a shark in my swimming pool for a long time and I did not even know it. But instead of eating me, this shark has been eating my joy, vitality, excitement, enthusiasm, and belief in myself. (Now you might not have this same shark in your pool but I guarantee that you […]
Excuse Me, Did You Know There Is A Shark In Your Swimming Pool?
Different is OK
Chicken List
Energizing Breaks
When you take a break, does your break actually energize and recharge you? For most people the answer to that question is usually “no”. Things like surfing the web, playing a computer game, watching a little TV etc. usually do not leave us feeling more awake, enthusiastic, energized, or creative. I invite […]
The Tyranny of the To-Do-List
I noticed earlier this week that my to-do-list was stressing me out. I also know that this is a common experience for many people. There are some BIG problems with getting stressed out by our to-do-lists. When we are stressed it is much harder to get into action. At that moment we are obviously not […]
Letting Go of the Past
The Familiar Zone
The Familiar Zone People often talk about needing to get out of their comfort zone. I think “familiar zone” is a much better term because a lot of the status quo that we embrace really isn’t all that comfortable. It isn’t comfortable to stress about money. It is not comfortable to feel like you aren’t […]
At The Carwash
At The Carwash We were at the carwash Sunday getting my friend’s car washed. He wanted Sabine (my daughter) to give the tip. So, he taught her how to do the cool handshake tip where you palm the money and exchange it in a handshake. We even practiced quite a few times. But then Sabine […]
Couples Money or a Colonoscopy
Couples Money or a Colonoscopy I got together with my friends, Chris and Marlow Felton, today. They wrote an amazing book, Couples Money. We got to talking about how important it is for couples to be on the same page about money (80% plus of all divorces have a money component to them). But this […]
Willing and Aware
Willing and Aware Much of personal growth boils down to willingness and awareness. If we aren’t willing to face our fears, get out of our comfort zone, or challenge what we think is the truth ~ then our results will stay the same. If we aren’t willing to put in the time and the effort […]