Deciphering the Hamburger Wrapper If you were walking down the street and you noticed that there was a hamburger wrapper stuck to the bottom of your shoe, would you spend a lot of time analyzing the situation? What burger chain is this from? Where exactly did this get attached to my shoe? Is the gluing […]
Inconvenience part 2
November 10, 2015 by Leave a Comment
Inconvenience part 2 Yesterday we talked about how it is impossible to inconvenience another person because it is their choice whether they are inconvenienced or not. So today let’s try that on for ourselves. No one or no thing can inconvenience us unless we decide to feel inconvenienced!!! Of course stuff happens in life – […]
Who says we have to listen?
August 27, 2015 by Leave a Comment
Who says we have to listen? People share their opinions with us all the time and so often for some reason, we think we have to listen, value their opinions, and take their advice to heart. We don’t. I had 3 separate discussions with people today who were suffering tremendously because of what other people […]
Past Present Future
August 17, 2015 by Leave a Comment
Past Present Future A reader request: Would you please talk about being/living in the moment, for this day and not ruminating about the past. I would like to hear your thoughts about mistakes or difficult things that have happened in the past and the ineffectiveness of dwelling on them. ~ Here you go Debby: Throughout the […]
You Have Already Arrived
August 14, 2015 by Leave a Comment
You Have Already Arrived People live so much of their lives thinking that they have not arrived yet – but that they will arrive when they are (fill in the blank) more successful, wealthier, skinnier, happier, etc. This is a lousy life strategy. First of all it creates a lot of suffering. “I’m not okay because I […]
To Not Take Offense
July 22, 2015 by Leave a Comment
Room for Miracles
June 29, 2015 by Leave a Comment
When letting go doesn’t seem to work
June 23, 2015 by Leave a Comment
I heard a great question today ~ “I’ve done a lot of letting go work – tapping, Sedona, etc. around being able to find good people for my business. But, it doesn’t seem to stick. What’s up with that?” Usually when this happens, it means that we need to go deeper. Here’s a metaphor: If […]
World’s Quickest Coaching School
May 30, 2015 by Leave a Comment
4 part curriculum 1. Ask for permission to coach – otherwise you are being rude and presumptuous. 2. Remember that any possible issue, problem, or challenge that a person can have is simply a symptom of them not fully loving, accepting, and approving of themselves ~ exactly as they are. ALWAYS! So the work to […]
I double dog dare you to answer this question
May 15, 2015 by Leave a Comment
So often the questions we ask ourselves orient us in the 180 degree wrong direction. We ask ourselves questions like: “How come no one wants to do business with me?” This question is almost certain to lead us to a distorted perspective that has us feel lousy about ourselves and doesn’t offer any real solutions. […]
