Seekers and finders When something is lost, there are people who set out to look for it and then there are people that set out to find it. The finders tend to find the lost item more often and far faster than the lookers do. Many people identify themselves as seekers. This can be a […]
Hanging out with goodness
Hanging out with goodness Imagine that goodness is a person. Do you live your life in a way that goodness would want to hang out with you? Imagine that I invite you to come over and that when you get here, you discovered that my house is nasty, dirty, smelly, and cluttered. Would you stay […]
A season vs a lifestyle
Our starting point determines our outcome
Our starting point determines our outcome If our starting point is something lousy like: I cannot do this. I’m not worthy. This is too hard. I’m destined to be mediocre. Good things don’t happen to me. Etc. Than an undesirable outcome is all but guaranteed. Oftentimes the first step to success is in upgrading our […]
The cost of envy
The cost of envy We cannot have what we envy. Envy is scarcity consciousness. Envy is saying, “that is for other people but not for me.” Instead we ought to be excited for others, celebrate their wins and successes, be happy for them, be grateful that such good exists in our world. Thinking that way […]
Supported???
Supported??? Lots of people have head trash about not being supported. And undoubtedly there are/were specific incidents where they were not supported and specific individuals didn’t support them. However, we are being supported 99.9% of the time. We have so much support in our lives that we take for granted – air, water, food, shelter, […]
Yeah but – how am I going to do that?
Already winning at life
Already winning at life So often when people think about doing better, they automatically make themselves wrong for being where they are at. Then they create pressure and stress around having to do better. When we step out of our own lives for a moment and take an objective look, we can easily see that […]