The pursuit of fun “The pursuit of fun” – what do those words bring up? Many adults have some sort of story that fun is for kids and that as adults we have to be serious. Who says? And, why should we listen to them? What if it is okay to have fun, to be […]
Imaginary Debt
Imaginary Debt People often mistakenly think that they owe someone something which keeps them stuck where they are. For example, I cannot quit my job even though I don’t want to be here because I owe them for hiring me in the first place. No I don’t owe them anything. The ledger is balanced. I […]
Two schools of leadership/ parenting/ supporting
Two schools of leadership/ parenting/ supporting Is our fundamental premise that people are incompetent and need to be managed, prodded, motivated, and controlled or do people need to be unleashed and supported? The former creates dependency and hesitation. The latter creates independence and confidence. If you have created dependent people in your life then a […]
Lousy Mind Readers
Credo upgrade
I DID MY JOB!!!!!
Inconvenience
Inconvenience So many people have a story about not wanting to inconvenience another person. This causes them to be reluctant to ask for help, reluctant to ask for the sale, reluctant to make their phone calls, reluctant to follow up, reluctant to ask for referrals, reluctant to ask for what they want . . . […]