Talking in or talking out? Are you talking yourself into something or are you talking yourself out of something? I can do this. ~ This is too hard. I love making calls. ~ They probably don’t want to hear from me. Healthy eating makes me feel so good. ~ Salad sucks. Bring it on. […]
To ask or not to ask
To ask or not to ask I’ve been debating whether or not I should ask my subscribers to the Daily Dose of Jonathan for a personal favor. Is that appropriate? Will it deepen our connection or cheapen our connection? As you are about to see, I have decided to ask. Why? Because asking is the […]
We just have to ask
We just have to ask I was talking with my friend today. He’s a travel writer. When he travels he asks the hotels for complimentary lodging (because he’s a travel writer). Sometimes they say yes, sometimes they say no. But if he didn’t ask then it would always be a no. Saturday while I was […]
Open to Receive
Open to Receive There is so much good waiting to come into our lives. But we are the gatekeepers, regulating just how much of that good we allow into our lives. Last Friday I went to dinner with a group of friends. One lady told story after story about how she would want something and […]
Manifesting Mediocrity
Manifesting Mediocrity I often hear people say things like, “I want to become a more powerful manifestor.” Everyone is already a powerful manifestor. It is just that many people are busy manifesting mediocrity. Many people are also busy manifesting opportunities to learn the same lesson over and over rather than actually learning that lesson. Our […]
Inconvenience part 2
Inconvenience part 2 Yesterday we talked about how it is impossible to inconvenience another person because it is their choice whether they are inconvenienced or not. So today let’s try that on for ourselves. No one or no thing can inconvenience us unless we decide to feel inconvenienced!!! Of course stuff happens in life – […]
Inconvenience
Inconvenience So many people have a story about not wanting to inconvenience another person. This causes them to be reluctant to ask for help, reluctant to ask for the sale, reluctant to make their phone calls, reluctant to follow up, reluctant to ask for referrals, reluctant to ask for what they want . . . […]
Head Trash and Referrals
Head Trash and Referrals Referrals are the easiest (by far) way to get new business. However, many people struggle with asking for them. Why? Here are a few major head trash reasons why: Asking for help is not okay because I should be able to do it by myself. So asking for help proves that […]
Busy vs Effective
Busy vs Effective Don’t confuse being busy with being effective. If you find yourself being quite busy but not being all that effective, there are a few things you will want to check. Am I busy with useful things, income generating activities, and things that will move me forward – or am I busy with […]
Asking the Wrong Question
Asking the Wrong Question People often ask themselves questions like: Who am I to be successful? Who am I to play big? Who am I to go for it? Who am I to be great? Actually who are you to not do these things? You have unique skills, talents, abilities, and opportunities. You wouldn’t have […]