Non-conscious allowing We allow struggle, frustration, anxiety, and limitation in our lives. Of course, we don’t do this consciously or intentionally. But through our non-conscious programming, through the meanings we have attached to life experiences (both consciously and non-consciously), and through other head trash, we do allow these things in our lives. The great news […]
Willingness
May 3, 2018 by Leave a Comment
Willingness Willingness doesn’t get attention, credit, and appreciation it deserves. Nothing changes without willingness. Over the years I’ve met plenty of people who were not willing, and their lives were a mess: Not willing to forgive Not willing to let go of the past Not willing to give up being hurt and being a victim […]
Quit deserving. Start allowing.
May 2, 2018 by Leave a Comment
Quit deserving. Start allowing. Any time that we have thoughts about worthy or deserving, there’s a 100% chance that we are caught up in some head trash. Imagine sitting in a coffee shop furiously wondering if you deserve to get a cup of coffee. Do you need to get someone’s approval first? Is it possible […]
Surround your goals and dreams
May 1, 2018 by Leave a Comment
Surround your goals and dreams A friend recently mentioned that his business is growing nicely. And, the bigger opportunities seem out of reach. He’s fallen into the “how” trap. If we have a goal where we can clearly see the “how”, it is sure to be a very small goal. When we get caught up […]
Unconscious Permission
April 30, 2018 by Leave a Comment
Unconscious Permission When we dream big, take bold action, act courageously, stretch ourselves, and shine brightly – we unconsciously give others permission to do the same. However, if we do these same things without love, without seeing the amazing in others, then we are saying that this is only for special people like me and […]
Resignation and small dreams
April 29, 2018 by Leave a Comment
Resignation and small dreams Over time, many (if not most) people start to dream smaller. They have lived some years, tried some things, had some hopes and dreams, and enthusiastic starts – but, they have not had that breakthrough, they haven’t hit that home run, they haven’t created that success they hoped for. And consequently, […]
Communication and Attention
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Being a purple cow
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Escaping the double bind
April 24, 2018 by Leave a Comment
Escaping the double bind A double bind is a situation where neither option is desirable, either way we lose. Our thinking often puts us into double binds. I can either be a good parent or have a successful career. This double bind has me choosing between being a bad father or being a bad […]
Experiences Create Expectations
April 24, 2018 by Leave a Comment
Experiences Create Expectations Our expectations are often based on what we have experienced. And, this process tends to happen automatically and non-consciously rather than intentionally. So, we don’t even know that we have these expectations. This dynamic then often has us get in our own way because we create limiting self-fulfilling prophecies. For example, ~ […]
