What if there is enough time! People often have head trash that there is not enough time. As soon as you buy into “there’s not enough time”, you enter into scarcity consciousness. As soon as you buy into “there’s not enough time”, you experience stress and anxiety which has your brain work less effectively which […]
Valuing Aliveness and Well-Being
Valuing Aliveness and Well-Being Clearly we do not place a high value on being happy, feeling good, having peace of mind, or being full of vitality and aliveness. Why do I say this? Because I watch people (including myself) take things personally all the time. I watch people get all bent out of shape over […]
Definite consequences to feeling stressed and rushed
Definite consequences to feeling stressed and rushed A big trap people fall into is the story that we don’t have enough time. This automatically puts us into scarcity consciousness. We will then naturally feel stressed, pressured, and rushed. And there are serious negative consequences to feeling this way. When we are feeling this way, our […]
Just for the fun of it
100 years from now, no one will care if you were successful or not successful, happy or not happy, lived adventurously or bored yourself to death. So in a cosmic sense it doesn’t really matter what you do with your life. But it does matter to the individual! (Wouldn’t you rather lead a happy and […]
Two Thoughts on “Busy”
Keeping a bunch of plates spinning is a metaphor that is often used for being busy. Keeping a bunch of balls in the air (juggling) is used too. In these acts, plates do get dropped. It’s okay. They just pick up another one, start it spinning, and continue with the act. Last summer at Cirque […]
3 Types of Self-Talk
Negative self-talk – damaging – I cannot do this! Positive self-talk – useful – I can do this! Possibility self-talk – even more useful – What if I can do this! We know that negative self-talk makes us physically weaker, less creative, less resilient, less magnetic to our good, less likely to be in action, […]
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People Like Me
We often have some head trash that goes something like ~ People like me don’t get rich. People like me don’t drive luxury automobiles. People like me don’t sell. People like me don’t get ahead. People like me don’t succeed in this business. Etc etc etc . . . We use this “people like me” […]
The Room With 100 Doors
Imagine a room with 100 doors. And, you are giving all of your attention and focus to just a couple of those doors because you have (in your infinite wisdom) decided that your good will definitely come through those specific doors. There might even be knocking at a different door but you say, “Go away. […]