If something is worth beating yourself up for not doing – then it must be worth celebrating for doing. So, isn’t it strange that we do the former but not the latter? How about if we switch that around and quit the beating up part and instead get good at the celebrating part. That seems like […]
I double dog dare you to answer this question
May 15, 2015 by Leave a Comment
So often the questions we ask ourselves orient us in the 180 degree wrong direction. We ask ourselves questions like: “How come no one wants to do business with me?” This question is almost certain to lead us to a distorted perspective that has us feel lousy about ourselves and doesn’t offer any real solutions. […]
3 Types of Self-Talk
May 14, 2015 by Leave a Comment
Negative self-talk – damaging – I cannot do this! Positive self-talk – useful – I can do this! Possibility self-talk – even more useful – What if I can do this! We know that negative self-talk makes us physically weaker, less creative, less resilient, less magnetic to our good, less likely to be in action, […]
3 green lights needed
May 13, 2015 by Leave a Comment
Essential To Be Refreshed
May 11, 2015 by Leave a Comment
I often hear people say that they feel guilty if they take any downtime or that they don’t give themselves permission to have downtime, to relax, or to play. There is time for relaxation, play, and fun (and a time for hard work)! Otherwise, what’s the point? Whenever we say something like this, it is […]
People Like Me
May 9, 2015 by Leave a Comment
We often have some head trash that goes something like ~ People like me don’t get rich. People like me don’t drive luxury automobiles. People like me don’t sell. People like me don’t get ahead. People like me don’t succeed in this business. Etc etc etc . . . We use this “people like me” […]
Warped Luxury of Negative Self Talk
May 7, 2015 by Leave a Comment
If you want to believe in yourself and be more confident, you cannot afford the warped luxury of negative self talk. It is impossible to believe in yourself when you are calling yourself a “loser” (and worse). Negative self talk is just a habit. Habits can be changed! Much Love, Jonathan I write these Daily […]
The Room With 100 Doors
May 6, 2015 by Leave a Comment
Imagine a room with 100 doors. And, you are giving all of your attention and focus to just a couple of those doors because you have (in your infinite wisdom) decided that your good will definitely come through those specific doors. There might even be knocking at a different door but you say, “Go away. […]
