There is always an agenda being fulfilled.
It is important to remember that there is always an agenda being fulfilled. Even when it seems like we are not getting what we want or that our lives are headed in the wrong direction, there is still an agenda that is being fulfilled.
Oftentimes this other agenda is outside of our conscious awareness but it is still there – dominating our lives.
Here are a couple examples that I frequently see:
I want to be in a great relationship vs I don’t want to get hurt again. Or, I don’t want to deal with any of that crap again.
I want to make more phone calls vs phone calls are scary and rejection hurts.
I want to make more money vs money is evil, not okay to have a surplus, etc.
I want to grow my business vs staying in my comfort zone is my #1 priority.
Etc.
As long as that shadow agenda has more weight than our positive agenda, we won’t be moving in the positive direction and we will probably be getting frustrated.
The work then is to dismantle the shadow agenda and give your energy, attention, and focus to the positive agenda.
Much Love,
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