Resistance equals opportunity In physical training, it is the resistance that makes our muscles stronger. In personal growth training, our resistance shows us where we have work to do. Then we do the work by a combination of 1) pushing through the resistance and doing it anyway and 2) doing the letting go work to […]
Let’s believe in Santa again
Thinking Test
Thinking Test Here’s an easy test to determine if our thinking is on track or off track: Does our thinking entertain us? Does it add quality and possibility to our lives? If the answer is yes, then we want to keep on thinking the kind of thoughts we habitually think. If the answer is no, […]
Two Legs
Two Legs Walking works much better than hopping as a strategy for getting from point A to point B. Using two legs works better than using one leg. Success requires both psychology and tactics. Let’s call these the two legs of success. We need both. The people who are too busy doing things to spend […]
Reverse Cherry Picking
The other kind of identity theft
The other kind of identity theft I heard a presentation about identity theft this morning. Sadly, this is a booming enterprise. However, there’s another kind of identity theft that is far more costly and damaging. And even worse, we have done it to ourselves. We have given up our identity of being brilliant, talented, fabulous […]
Can it really be this easy?
No water to be found anywhere
No water to be found anywhere Imagine standing next to a river and thinking that water is scarce and hard to get. That would be pretty silly. Imagine thinking that money is scarce and hard to get. That would be pretty silly too. Just look out your window, there’s a river of money out there. […]
Want and willingness
Want and willingness Want without willingness is – pointless, a pipe dream, a way to be frustrated and disappointed. And, wanting without being willing to do the work is a common issue. I want to be in good physical shape but I’m not willing to do the work. I want to make more money/ grow […]
I suck at this
I suck at this Note: the title of this dose is not a statement of identity – “I suck”, it is a statement about performance or skill level – “I suck at this”. There are a lot of things that people suck at – communicating, relationship, follow up, managing money, creating money, and many more. […]