Antidote for Grief Here’s a fantastic little NLP (neurolinguistic programming) technique for dealing with grief. Look up and to your right and then make a picture of the person that you are missing, that you are grieving for. As soon as we make that picture, that person is now with us so we cannot feel […]
Give Energy
January 7, 2017 by Leave a Comment
Conflicting Agendas
January 5, 2017 by Leave a Comment
Conflicting Agendas One of my agendas is to be a great father. Another of my agendas is to grow my business. So the question is: Can these two agendas coexist? The answer is: It depends. It depends on my perspective. If I view things from an either or perspective then one happens at the expense […]
Trusting that people will do what they need to do
January 4, 2017 by Leave a Comment
Trusting that people will do what they need to do Life is so much easier when we trust rather than worry, fret, and catastrophize. In the last few days I have been reaching out to people to promote my upcoming Breakthrough to Unprecedented Results program. Several previous coaching clients have responded with an apology for […]
Pet Peeves – how ridiculous
January 3, 2017 by Leave a Comment
Life Trajectory
January 2, 2017 by Leave a Comment
Life Trajectory If we want to change the trajectory of our lives, we are going to have to get uncomfortable. We get to choose between the comfortableness and familiarity of the status quo or the discomfort and unfamiliarity of better. Which do you choose – in theory and in reality? Do theory and reality match? […]
Resolutions, Commitment, and New Beginnings
January 1, 2017 by Leave a Comment
Resolutions, Commitment, and New Beginnings It is January 1st. Change is in the air. People are optimistic about new beginnings and different ways of doing life. Commitments have been made. And . . . the optimism and the change won’t last unless they are accompanied by some deeper work. Our behaviors are driven by our […]
Lies create compulsive behaviors
December 31, 2016 by Leave a Comment
Lies create compulsive behaviors Often when we fall under the influence of a lie we then experience a compulsion to behave a certain way. And whenever we are compulsed, we don’t have the freedom to act in our best interest. Here are a few examples: “I owe them” can have us stay in a job […]
Personal growth trap ~ it is not about the information
December 29, 2016 by Leave a Comment
Personal growth trap ~ it is not about the information Information does not change people. Applied information does change people. This is a trap that shows up often in personal growth. People get information but then they don’t apply it and nothing changes except that they get more frustrated and resigned. There are so many […]
Win the Day
December 28, 2016 by Leave a Comment
