Hurt or Happy I recently talked to a guy who clearly would rather be hurt than happy. His happiness is 100% contingent on the person who hurt him changing. In effect, he is saying that the only possible way he can be happy is if that other person changes. Consequently, he is stuck in suffering. […]
It is not about the words
March 27, 2018 by Leave a Comment
It is not about the words Sure, words matter. And, the energy and mindset behind the words communicate far more than the actual words. For example, if I say some encouraging words like “we can do this” but I am coming from “people are idiots and they need to be managed or else they will […]
15 no’s, 1 yes
March 19, 2018 by Leave a Comment
15 no’s, 1 yes The other morning, Mike texted me to see if I wanted to play volleyball at noon. Of course, I said “yes”. Then Mike said that he’d find two more people and we’d be set. He quickly confirmed Doug so then we needed one more. Throughout the morning, he kept texting me updates […]
